See what we can do to help these wonderful, but at times pesky, couples. Marriage and family. How many of us have ever thought to call a marriage therapist or family counselor for assistance, the same way we might ask our friends what movies are on? Sometimes the job of managing the family front calls for an all-star group, which isn't a bad thing. connections cs Add some spice to bland soup. Suddenly, it's delightful!
Imagine trying to ride a unicycle while juggling chainsaws. It's like family life some days. Unpredictable, making you want your hair pulled out. Other days could not be happier. This is made even more complicated by the various personalities that are involved. And if this doesn't make for a roller coaster of emotions, what does? Getting on with one's partner or triplet teenagers in their teens can often seem akin to trying to get cats to perform Riverdance.
Now, let's travel in time to those 'too many changes' braces of flashy colors that were a part of the 'brightening up' phase for adolescents, or to hair gel at that moment, when it was just the coolest after slices of bread.
Nobody prepared us for the reality that adulting would also be frazzling-take on layer after layer of taxes, bedtime routines, and decisions like whether the carpet is more beige or taupe in vibe. Everyday in the home means compromises, prioritizing and patience.
Do you know that opposites do attract? Although opposites do not attract, if the ideal weekend for your partner is to climb Mount Windswept, and Netflix's true-to life, gut-wrenching documentary marathon is your thing, you may be looking at oil-water. A wee pinch of direction from a professional, though, and that oil-water problem will be a delicious vinaigrette of harmony.
The menu of options available in therapy are amazing. Surprised, but delightful. Just like that first pizza with pineapple. A conversation with a person who is not involved in the game can bring clarity. Sometimes, those little bits of wisdom and quotes, which you might read in the middle of a dreary, Wednesday afternoon, can create that aha. moments. And how many of us remember what Aunt Myrtle said, "Keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them later"? Folk wisdom is a good thing. Families and couple need allies who can transform tumultuous sounds into a symphony that is soothing.